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Child abuse seems to be the common denominator in much mental health illness. One avenue of that abuse is turning babies, even newborns, over to daycare centers. Lara Wylie Haynes has a guest post on the substack Year Zero "Universal Early Childhood Daycare Has Been Proven to Damage the Children Who Have Been Through It And may be at the root of the ongoing and growing child mental health crisis" that goes into this at length. https://wesleyyang.substack.com/p/universal-early-childhood-daycare?sd=pf

"Mothers and mothering matter to babies: even babies adopted at birth can suffer a sense of deep shock from the loss of their biological mother, whose body they have lived inside for nine months, hearing the soundtrack of her heartbeat and voice, feeling the shake of her laughter and the familiar rhythm of her gait. This sensory bond is formed well before birth. Without either denigrating or excusing fathers, or the myriad alternative arrangements in which individuals have been able to thrive, there can be no perfect substitute for that unique bond. Our language should not seek to euphemize this reality away."

Babies need their mothers, not a caretaker, no matter how attentive the caretaker might be, which a day care cannot provide. A grandmother or aunt might be a sufficient replacement for the mother, but ideally, it is the mother who has the central and most impact, good or bad, upon the future mental health of her children.

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Between Chairs's avatar

As a fellow reductionist I applaud your self awareness. Being able to recognize patterns and trends is an important survival skill.

It is alarming to me how often intelligence and mental skills are discounted in this world.

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