Gay men who claim they're on "Team TERF":
You will be until they turn on you, too. And they will. They hate men. They hate men qua men.
No. They don't only hate bad male behavior. They hate *men*.
Why? Because they need an "Oppressor" to excuse them for all life choices they've made. You, and our male sex, are only useful to them. We are objects and social justice accessories for feminists. Nothing more.
They will suffer you until the moment you say something they don't approve of. Until the moment you hold a woman responsible for being a collaborator in trans.
Until you mention that their obsession with their sexed identity helped birth trans.
Then they're going to maul you, ruin your reputation, call you a misogynist, follow you around on social media, ping your friends to ask them why they tolerate "male violence."
And when that happens, don't tell me. I don't care.
Suffer the consequences of your foolishness.
Gay men on "Team Terf"
This is true. A large contingent of Twitter TERFs came to my rescue when the Twitter transmafia came after me. I needed and appreciated their support. But I did not--could not--join forces with them, and when they asked me why, I told them. I don't hate men. I had long private conversations with a couple of them, who insisted they didn't hate men, but they did. This was proven anytime I insisted that my mother was equally responsible for my childhood abuse as my father. I don't have to tell *you* what they said. The script was, and is, predictable.
I don’t discount what you and Holly Math Nerd say, I’ve just learned to stay off social media and express my opinions in safe company. There’s a lot of gaseous, unhappy people out there who have too much time on their hands and too much hate in their hearts, finagling ways to feel superior.