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George Romey's avatar

Oh god Josh you are reading my minds. Things that drive me crazy:

1. One of the negative outgrowths of being able to avoid an "ad", easy as hitting the mute on your remote, is that advertising is everywhere. From the side of your kids' school bus to pop ups on the obituary page in your local online newspaper. While you read about the passing of one your favorite teachers someone is trying to sell you an online college degree.

2. Safety overboard. Like we're all fragile, autistic five year olds with endless physical issues. I don't need daytime running headlights on a sunny day. I can see when the sun is out. Same for packaging that is almost impossible to get through. Like the bottle of my mouthwash packaged like it's an explosive material.

3. A culture that celebrates, encourages, and rewards low rent, ghetto, trailer park trash human behavior and appearance. Women that have butts and a voice/tone that look/sound like something out of the animal world at the top of that list. Your nose was never designed to have a piece of cheap metal driven through it. Bathing should be at least a once a day activity.

4. Technology that is far inferior to the days of paper and pen. Technology should make life easier and enrich our lives, not send us into an endless loop with a chat bot.

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Esme Fae's avatar

I was just thinking about how much I detest the videos that play noisily at the gas station pump as I filled up my car the other day.

And I was just saying to my husband "remember when restaurants had things like draperies and tablecloths and carpets, and weren't SO DAMN LOUD?" I think the change to all hard surfaces and floors had something to do with them being easier to clean, but had the side effect of making everything so much noisier that people no longer wanted to linger over dessert and coffee - thus allowing faster table turnover and more revenue. It's weird thinking back to what it was like going to a nice restaurant back in the '80s or '90s; you could have an actual conversation instead of just saying "what? WHAT?" to each other.

Yes, everything is noisier and more visually overstimulating these days. Why is EVERYTHING constantly beeping or making weird sounds? Why is there obnoxious music EVERYWHERE, all the time? Why are people walking around having speakerphone conversations?

I have a theory that part of the massive increase in autism diagnoses is simply that our normal environment is about 1,000 times more overstimulating than it was 20-30 years ago. People who, in previous generations, would have just been considered sensitive and introverted are now having autistic meltdowns because their sensory systems are on constant overload.

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